Going for a song

Signooooraaa!!!  SIGNOOOOOOOOORRRRAAAA!!!!

I dread it when I hear my neighbour’s voice calling me across the dividing wall between his back garden and our terrace as it did late Saturday afternoon last week.  Not because I don’t like him, but because he speaks with such a strong Neapolitan accent that I cannot understand a word he says. Vito assures me though that our neighbour’s speech is difficult to follow,  like Geordie accents for the Brits. Peering out of the patio doors to see him waving at me, I called back to wait a second and dragged Vito out to "translate".  

We were invited to a “serenade”.  I was absolutely delighted, as I’d never been to one.  What’s a serenade?  Well, it’s when a male lover sings under the balcony/window to his loved one at night.  Ever so romantic, but here also a tradition followed by some as an excuse for a pre wedding party.  Our neighbour’s lovely daughter is getting married tomorrow J Her father asked us along with other neighbours to watch the “spectacle” and after join them for something to eat in the garden of their beautiful villa.  How could we possibly refuse??

We were instructed to go at 9 p.m. (Italian time it turned out L) but finding no-one at the appointed place (their garage ramp) we returned home. The serenade was being kept secret from the bride and we didn’t want to be seen hanging about in the street.  Later hearing soft music we went to investigate but unfortunately it was too dark and there were too many people to see much. We could just make the young husband warbling nervously up to his beloved leaning over the terrace wall above to watch.

The bride’s mother, a slim, very young looking woman with long dark hair, black flashing eyes and a deep husky voice grabbed me when she saw me.  “I’ve been trying to find you all week to invite you, where have you been?” she cried enveloping me in a warm hug.  “Come, come,” she called leading us round with her other guests through her front gate and into their enormous garden.  The lawn was decked out with tables and and a whole buffet of our hostess’ home cooking laid out on a groaning table.  She is a WONDERFUL cook. I love it when I’m occasionally invited in for coffee and cake (usually when I’ve lost one of the cats and have gone there for help in finding it). The decorations were somewhat unusual though, one in particular

standing guard over "bomboniere"or favours. I'd never seen bomboniere given at a wedding or christening or similar kind of party before living in Italy.

 You can read more about the history of favours here

Sitting at a table with our other neighbours we spent a lovely evening catching up on news and laughing a lot.  There was live music from couple whose repertoire ranged from Peggy Lee to Prince, and children running everywhere screaming with glee.  I eventually found the bride-to-be, a carbon copy of her mother and was able to wish her “Auguri”.  All in all an unusual, very Italian and lovely way to spend an evening J